You are in this long line, and you are wondering what to say when you finally reach the individuals who are grieving the death of a loved one. First, it is helpful to remember if you are in a line at a funeral home, you are already doing the most important gesture of caring. You may be uncomfortable, but you are there.
Freeing Hope
by Karen Mulder | Abuse, Wisdom, Wisdom Podcasts
Is Hope’s story your story? No matter what Hope does in her marriage, something is always wrong. She tries to be a good wife. She reads books; she prays; she follows the advice from well-meaning friends. But she still...
What to do when visiting someone in the hospital
by Karen Mulder | Illnesses, Wisdom, Wisdom Podcasts
Following are suggestions to guide you in visiting those who are ill. Since circumstances vary, some of the suggestions may not apply in a given situation. These may also apply to visiting someone in a nursing home.
Be A Safety Net
by Karen Mulder | Depression, Suicide, Wisdom, Wisdom Podcasts
In 1932, when the first section of the Golden Gate Bridge was being built, there were 25 accidental deaths of workers falling into the Bay. Then, a large net was installed below the bridge. Because of the net, 28...
An Elephant, A Chain & Freedom
by Karen Mulder | Abuse, Wisdom, Wisdom Podcasts
Can a bicycle chain hold an elephant in place? Yes it can!
Josh McDowell tells a story about a chained elephant which reminds us of some adults who are chained to their horrific past of physical, emotional or sexual abuse. Josh writes:
“We’re like a circus elephant tied down by a bicycle chain. We ask how one small chain could hold a powerful elephant. The trainer explains that the chain doesn’t hold him; it’s the elephant’s memory that keeps him from trying to escape.
I feel Miserable
by Karen Mulder | Self Care, Wisdom, Wisdom Podcasts
I have a cold. I feel miserable, and I don’t have time for a cold. I’ve got places to go and things to get done, and all I want to do is crawl in bed and have a little pity party. Just as I was priming up for my...
Create a Sports Basket for Dad
by Karen Mulder | 122+ Ways To Care Well, Caregiving Basics, Wisdom Podcasts
We often think of of sending a themed gift basket to those in the hospital. But, there are so many other ways to celebrate the men in our life with this thoughtful, personalized gift. So, I asked two sports enthusiasts...
God Nudge Story By Jennifer
by Guest Author | General Caregiving, God Nudge, Wisdom, Wisdom Podcasts
It was two days before Christmas and a horrible ice storm hit our town. Thousands were without power and the outside temperatures were below freezing.
After cleaning up the kitchen, I sat down for a minute to relax and work on a puzzle. Out of the blue, a family from my church came to my mind. The mother is suffering from a severe mental condition and has been placed in an adult care facility. The father has a major brain injury, and the oldest son has Down syndrome.
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