Should I Go?
“Should I go?” “Yes, I probably should go.” “Should I go?” “Oh, I don’t know.” “If I don’t go, I will probably feel...
“Should I go?” “Yes, I probably should go.” “Should I go?” “Oh, I don’t know.” “If I don’t go, I will probably feel...
Karen Mulder | 1 min read
It is helpful to remember individuals who are grieving want to know that others remember the one who has died. ...
Karen Mulder | 2 min read
Since survivors appreciate remembering the "good times" of their loved one, share your memories in a...
Karen Mulder | 2 min read
The fact that you are asking the question is so wonderful. The people who are grieving will be so pleased and touched in their hearts that someone else remembers their ongoing grief and the one who has died.
Now, back to your question: What should one say on the anniversary date of a loved one's death?
Karen Mulder | 2 min read
Why try to win an argument no one can win? Norma says, “When Frank’s mom was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease, I...
Karen Mulder | 2 min read
By Larry George Bill and Jane, members of my church, recently separated. Both of them were quite active as...
Karen Mulder | 2 min read
She was crabby! Grumpy! She yelled at the nurses and complained all the time. Just the kind of person I like to avoid, but I couldn’t because she was in the bed next to my mother in a rehab center. Every day when I went to visit my mother, I hoped that 'she' would be sleeping or at physical therapy. One day God whispered in my ear, “When you do it unto the least of these, you do it to me.” Oh! OK! My sister and I started showering Mrs. Grumpy with care and kindness: We brought her flowers, cookies, said “Hi” and asked her, “What may we do for you today?"
Karen Mulder | 2 min read
I have a cold. I feel miserable, and I don’t have time for a cold. I’ve got places to go and things to get done,...
Karen Mulder | 2 min read
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