It can be difficult to care for someone when we are at odds with their point of view. But I encourage you: remember your common ground. Remember the ties that bind you together. Remember your history with this person....
Coping With Loneliness
by Karen Mulder | Self Care, Wisdom, Wisdom Podcasts
Edna says, “First, I lost my mom, then four years later my husband and then three years after that my dad died. I feel so lost. I have no one. I sometimes feel that God has forgotten me. Where do I turn?" God...
What May I Do to Help You?
by Karen Mulder | General Caregiving, Wisdom, Wisdom Podcasts
Often when asked, “What may I do to help you?” most people are hesitant. “Oh, nothing, really,” they say. “I’m fine.” (Perhaps they aren’t sure themselves, can’t make a decision, or don’t want to inconvenience...
A Cure for Sorrow
by Karen Mulder | Self Care, Wisdom, Wisdom Podcasts
There is an old Chinese tale about the woman whose only son died. In her grief, she went to the Holy man and said, “What prayers, what magical incantations do you have to bring my son back to life?” Instead of...
The Best Type of Valentine’s Card
by Karen Mulder | Holidays, Wisdom, Wisdom Podcasts
Start now and create the best kind of Valentine's card for your spouse or friend. Here is how: Purchase a beautiful card which is blank inside, or just use whatever paper is available. Believe me, it isn’t the paper...
Leave Your Advice On The Shelf
by Karen Mulder | 122+ Ways To Care Well, Caregiving Basics, Listen, Wisdom Podcasts
What is one of the most wonderful gifts you can give another person?
You don’t have to go to the mall to buy it. It’s free, and it is one of the most powerful ways to be God’s “light” to those who are suffering. What is this wonderful gift? It is listening, really listening to another person. Hearing his or her story and helping the person tell his or her story.
Who Killed Jimmie Lee Jackson?
by Karen Mulder | Holidays, Wisdom, Wisdom Podcasts
Recently I watched the movie, “Selma,” which tells the story of the 1965 civil rights march from Selma to Montgomery, Alabama, in search of equal voting rights. I remember many horrific scenes and words spoken, but...
1000 Gifts
by Karen Mulder | Self Care, Wisdom, Wisdom Podcasts
There is always a lot to be thankful for, if you take the time to look. For example, I’m sitting here thinking of how nice it is that wrinkles don’t hurt. –Author Unknown Ann Voskamp wonders, “How do we find joy in...
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