When my friend, Pat, was dying, she asked, “Karen, will you please massage my feet?” This request made me feel a little uncomfortable. I didn’t know how. I wasn’t trained. Although I did remember how wonderfully soothing and relaxing it was when having my feet were massaged during a pedicure.
Anyway, Pat handed me a bottle of lotion, and I began to softly and tenderly massage her feet. While I massaged I prayed that she would feel Jesus’ touch. I pictured in my mind that Jesus was releasing waves of quiet, soothing peace throughout Pat’s body and mind. Gradually, I could feel Pat relax and then she was sleeping.
In your caregiving, I hope that you will consider giving a suffering friend a loving foot massage. It will be a gift to the friend and to you.
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