Some of the Best Gifts on Mothers’ Day and Fathers’ Day
What is the best gift you can give your mother on Mother’s Day and what does a father want the most on Fathers’ Day?
I can only answer from my point of view and the comments by 5 other adults whose children are also adults and have families of their own.
So what do we want? TIME! We want the gift of our children’s and grandchildren’s time.
Visit us often. Call us often. Invite us to lunch or dinner? In other words: spend time with us.
Some of my favorite gifts in recent years are:
One Mothers’ Day, my son Michael gave me a note inviting me for lunch once a month. I loved it because rarely does a mother have the opportunity to spend one-on-one time with a son.
Another great idea from my kids was a certificate which said that during the summer months they would provide Sunday lunch once or twice a month. Making this extra special was that they often hung around after lunch and we talked and enjoyed a summer day together.
Jeff, another son, doesn’t know that it is such a gift to me when he helps me with all my techy stuff. Also when my mother was in a nursing home two hours away, Jeff went to visit her once a month. That visit was a gift to my mom and to me.
One father suggested that a great gift would be offering to help your parent with a project or a job which needs to be done. During the doing of the project we will talk and catch-up with each other’s lives, and hopefully share some laughs.
Joyce, a mother of two daughters and four grandchildren says, “ The most meaningful gift to me is something that lets me know they know my likes and dislikes. To me that means they know me, and that what I like is important to them. My greatest gift is all of them sitting around my dining room table, enjoying a meal and talking about life.
So consider giving your mom or dad the gift of your time.